Is it possible for a talented person to hate his job? Yes and
it can drive him or her crazy. Many things are at tracted to job success and
you must balance all to enjoy your job. A less talented person can enjoy his
job more than a very talented job holder. Many things can discourage the
talented to the extent that he would want to quit his job. The first
consideration is the people he works with. Working relationships is the most
vital consideration; especially if your boss hates you and would want to get
you out of the system. It is like hell working for somebody who dislikes you.
There will be constant conflicts and friction, which is turn would lower
productivity and decrease working concentration. As the conflict increases, the
tension goes up and the boss finds a good reason to get him out of the job. In
the end, he loses his job. This is the case of a talented worker who was
frustrated in his job. At times we are the cause of our problems. When we are
attacked we try to revenge and cause more trouble for ourselves. We want to
fight back and worsen the situation and that leads to job disqualification. A
talented worker can still save his job and change the minds of his persecutors.
Conflicts can be resolved if we stop revenge for revenge. No matter how good
you are at revenging, in the end, it brings you more sorrow and unhappiness.
Revenge is like fighting a war; and in war you always get hurt. If you don’t
die at war, and come back as the winner, you will still experience sorrow.
Why? Because some of your loved ones were killed during the
war. This is what revenge can do to you. Revenge is sweet when we think about
it, yet there is a price attached to every wrong action we take. I believe
there is micro-revenge in every living being but planned revenge is a danger
sign in our lives. Just like hatred, revenge will sap your energy for living
and leave your heart heavy. A revengeful person can’t be happy; he spends all
his time trying to hurt somebody and he loses the joy of other relationships in
the race to destroy his neigbour. Many people profess to love God but their
action is anti-God. You know, revenge is sweet. Just think about it, somebody
hurts you, and because you have been hurt, you want to give that person back.
You want to teach him or her a lesson, and at his point, it is sweet, you are
enjoying it knowing that the person will suffer for it. You started planning
your revengeful mission. Meanwhile your heart is burning like the burning bush
Moses saw in the Bible, it wants to hurt and finish the mission. This in turn
has affected your concentration at work, at home and in your personal life. You
can’t enjoy peace because your mind is not at rest. Your family is not happy
with you because you can’t just settle down. Even after you have completed your
revenge mission. You thought it was over, yet it is not over. When thought it
is time to rest is when the war has just started. Why, that person you hurt
might have another plan to hurt you again and your world is at war again. Plan two
begins and you strike him and he responds to your action and it keeps going
until you lose your head, your mind, your marriage, your children, your job,
and your business. Revenge alone had buried many marriages and businesses. It
is so powerful negative that continuous expression of revenge will turn you
into a killer. Do you know that majority of those who kill men today never
thought they would do so yesterday? It may surprise you that some who killed
today were real saints of God yesterday. It all starts small and you can never
tell, that small dislike in your heart might to hatred tomorrow. Be careful!
The mind can be wicked, we all have that little hatred in our hearts. We all
have the tendency to kill and hurt others, we must guard our minds and resolve
small issues. King David never thought he would murder one of his best
fighters, but he did and regretted his action. Now ask me, didn’t David serve
God with all his heart? He is even rated as the best king who feared God. No
matter how spiritual a person is, he can fall if he entertains those thoughts
of evil. This is why spiritual giants can still commit fornication and all
kinds of sins. Save your life, time and energy by rejecting anything that wants
to steal your happiness; think over these things and you will be happy and
successful in your job and at home.
JOB
INSPIRATION
Whenever
there is conflict in the working place, there is great loss. The conflict
creator loses, the conflict target loses, the conflict environment loses, and
the conflict organization loses.
JOB
INTERVIEW
May
we not employ trouble makers so that we don’t fall down and break our legs?
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